I have met this girl about a year ago and everything was just perfect, total chemistry, for the first few months.

She has been unemployed already before we met and after a few months I have suggested her to move to my place.

I have been trying to find her a job, but somehow I haven’t seen any effort from her to find one.
I have been taking care of all her needs and bills and all what I’ve seen was, she sitting on her ass at home
and chatting with her buddies.

After a while I have asked her, “Why don’t you find at least a part time job like in a food court or so?”
and she just replied “I’m not that kind of girl…”.

WTF? I’m working off my ass just to pay the bills and she is not that kind of girl?

She is that kind of girl who likes to go to fancy restaurants, expects me to always pay all the bills
and even argues with me if I don’t give enough tips… but she is not that kind of girl who contributes?

One evening we have been talking as usual, and she has been going on about something for a while already when she said
yada, yada, yada ” and me as a co-owner of this property…”.

WHF? At the first moment I thought I will beat the shit out off her on the spot, but that would not solve anything and instead of the violence (because I would never hit a woman) I decides to kick her ass out of my place as soon as she finds a job… You don’t bite the hand what feeds you, you whore!!!

… and a few weeks later she did find a job and I kicked her ass out. Since than happily ever after!
Gab

P.s.: F.T.S.S.! = Fuck That Shanghaies Shit!

I let stress, complacency, and poor communication ruin a relationship I cared the world about and now despite my best efforts life keeps making me seem like a villain. I really did fuck up by being an ass to the girl I love and accusing her of not having feelings for me when really it was due to poor communication and me letting work stress get the better of me and she dumped me and I thought she was gone for ever. Then I really put in the effort and went the extra mile to straighten up and fly right on a permanent basis, things where going well and she came back to me and was affectionate and everything I wanted, I thought I was the luckiest man, then she saw old emails from dating sites that I had tried to de-activate but they kept sending me spam and other things beyond my control that made me look like a villian and now she has the wrong idea and left me again, I tried so hard and was succesfull at implementing permant change, was so true and faithfull to her, had such deep feelings for her and only her, I had no feelings for anyone but her and now she hates me and it just all seems so unfair because I did all the right things and was an angel.

I am recently engaged to a girl whom I love more than anything in the world. She has a two-year old son, who is not mine, who’ve I’ve grown to love as well. We’ve been together since her son was five months old, which means our relationship is nearing two years. About 6 months ago, she emailed an ex-boyfriend of her’s, telling him how she’s still in love with him and wishes they were still together, but doesn’t want to leave me either. I suspected her feelings towards him, so I began to read her emails. I confronted her about the email, and after a long argument, and a lot of explaining and apologizing, I chose to stay and work on our relationship. She promised that she was just confused and it would never happen again. This event occurred again three more times since then, all a month or two apart. After the final event took place, she destroyed everything she had from their relationship, and severed all ties. She hasn’t tried to contact him since. More recently, she has begun talking to another of her ex-boyfriends (her son’s father), whom I personally would rather avoid, and they have become very good friends again, after a long time of basically hating each other. Even though she assured me they were nothing more than friends, I still became paranoid and ended up starting several arguments, and reading her texts when she wasn’t around. She somehow has come to the conclusion that deleting their conversations from her phone, lying to me about it, and sneaking around in order to maintain her friendship with him without upsetting me is the best solution. I’ve confronted her about this multiple times, which, unfortunately, also meant that I had to admit to spying on her, again. She still assures me everything has been innocent, and she was only trying to avoid any further arguing. After an argument tonight, she has told me that I am immature, controlling; she feels trapped and has a lack of privacy, I don’t trust her, and she apparently can’t trust me either. She’s deciding whether or not our relationship is worth trying to salvage. I love her and we are perfect together… But it’s hard for me to trust her anymore, and she hasn’t tried very hard to regain that trust. I’m tired of worrying. I feel under-appreciated and taken for granted, and she feels the same. Fml.

Ok, I’ll try to make this short because it actually is a long story. A girl and I have been in love for 2 years straight, while being a couple for 6 of these months, but we never kissed because she wasn’t ready for it. I eventually broke up, feeling for something more serious, but we have still been showing our love for the other ever since.

Some other second girl showed me her interest for me at the end of this summer, and because I thought I needed something more active, we hook up together and started acting as a couple. We’ve did many things, like fingering and stuff, but we never had sex, and I had nice feelings for her, but still less than I had for the first girl. Finally, about a month ago, the second girl I was with left me for another guy.

Now that I’ve been spending the last month pretty depressed, I went to the first girl’s house today and we just hanged out and had peaceful fun together, but I noticed that my feelings for her are still high up. The problem is, I know she doesn’t want a relation now, even if she might still love me, and I know that she definetly doesn’t want sex before marriage. She is christian and proud to be, so is her family, but i’m not, and that set some kind of barrier between us. I know that I love her deeply, but I also know that I need not only an emotional relation but also a physical relation, and I know it would take a lot of time to have that with her, and I don’t even think she would really like having sex and such. I almost did it with the second girl, I’m ready and I want it, but I know it would take a couple of years with her.

On the other hand, there is a third girl that I like a lot, but i’m afraid to try anything in case I end up making a couple with her even if I love the first girl even more. I really don’t know what to do, I tried to go on and forget about her, but I deeply failed.

I start off inlove, after two timing me and another girl he moves from his university town to his hometown where I am.we both decide we love each other enough to confirm that we want to have children.we have our fun for a few year then start trying to have a baby.during the years before this he decides he’s a photographer.He goes from one thing to another.after honoring him and encouraging him he starts to turn into am asshole.I gave too much of myself and after our first Childs Beth he starts keeping another girl a secret.he is a fantastic liar and is the type where he wants everything to go his way no matter if it hurts anyone or not.he begins to create problems.probably because he realized he’s got a family to provide for an maybe he’s not ready and decides to do some stupid shit like abuse his Valium and alcohol.me, not knowing where out money is going I start to notice we can’t quite afford good anymore so we move back to my mothers.which. I knew wouldn’t be good for me.I know it’s mean but I can’t stand my mother.my boyfriend stops takin pictures of me, neglects me and his baby,lies to me, irresponsible with money,keeps lying about a girl.manipulates and continues to emotionally and mentally abuse me and all my fish die, he still doesn’t get his act together I’m pregnant again he gets worse and I finally fins out about the girl a few months after I have his second child and he’s a different person we fight everyday cause I am convinced I fucking hate him he lost his lisence due to dru k driving before we moved back, he’s using my credit card, lying about masturbating lying about where he’s going, sees the girl again and makes up a story. If I go any further I’m going to threaten someone to fucking cut my throat. My babies need me.fuck my life.

i have met this boy and my friends are adding him i am not stoppin them but like fml

My last ex boyfriend cheated on me with one of his ex girlfriend’s. He went to her to fulfill his needs because I wasn’t as intimate with him as he hoped I would be. While we dated he would constantly tell me he loved me and that he would never hurt me. When I found out I was upset but at the time I had a lot of things going on with my life so I overlooked it. I overlooked it because although we broke up that day we still saw each other for another few weeks. During those weeks we saw each other I was always angry,insecure and as time passed it was although nothing had happened. I couldn’t live with what I had become, an angry woman filled with bitterness and mentally worn down.

Time has passed since that relationship and I have been dating someone new for a little over three months and I have never felt more in love. I really think he’s the one for me. Although he has never given me a reason to not trust him, I am worried that he’ll meet someone and leave me behind in the dust. I trust him but I am worried about being hurt again. He is different from anyone I’ve met before; he’s honest, loyal and although he has told me he loves me, he isn’t over using it by assuring me everyday that he does and wouldn’t hurt me like my past relationship. I feel a deep connection with him but at the same time I have the worry of losing him. I feel like I have carried that insecurity from my past relationship into this one.Does anyone have any advice for me or words of wisdom?

My gf of 9 months dumped me yesterday. She said that shes not as attracted to me n i hold her down- BUT she still dosnt know if she wants me of not, so shes not talking/seeing me and if she misses me rly wants me shes gana come back. Where in highschool, i understand that being icolated for abit to fix are problems wasnt good, but like shes a hipicrit- she blocked my ex gfs number, and girls that liked me but id never go and do anything with, but then when it come to down to her- she dosnt have one number blocked and started talking to her ex aweek before leaving me- BUT idk if theyve just been talking 4 a week. i saw last nite on formspring, post from 3months ago saying she misses him(IK its her b/c i called n asked her n she said she did say it.she never told me this and ever since right after xmas has become shady with her phone and not lettin me know the pw’s to her fb ect(but she knows all mine) n idk if she really left me for those reasons- or she still likes her ex n is lying to me- dragged me along until now and is just saying she dosnt know so i wont b so upset n will take this easier. i just needed 2 talk give me ur opinion- and sorry if your problems are worse or this whole thing is comfusing to read.