I’m crazy in love with this guy! I think we’re about to break up bc of a lack of trust, on his part not mine. I’m devastated since I think the lack of trust is unwarranted…
Here’s the story. Tell me what you think.
One night after a few drinks… he tells me that the other day when I had had a few too many I blurted out that I had cheated on him, more of an insinuation than a fact. Thinking he was going to be getting the wrong idea I though to clear up the entire issue.. bad call!
This is what I did on the night of question. I went out for drinks with a married man, who frequents my place of business. Now that I told him, he says he cannot trust me. After much consideration he doesn’t want to break up with me as we have invested too much into this relationship to walk away from it all….
My heart is completely broken, but I still don’t want to beg him to take me back. I don’t know for sure if I want to marry him, as I am 27 he is 36 and we haven’t dated for a year yet. I’m not going to say it’s not a total possibility, but it’s not in my immediate future.

It’s been less than a month since me and my ex broke up. he was the first person i ever fell in love with. we went out for a year and a half and now we don’t talk anymore. a part of me still loves him but after everything we went through i’m just looking forward to moving on. i’m currently going out with someone else and i adore him but a part of me still wants to be with my ex. do i leave the one i adore for the one i may still be in love with?

There is this girl i met back in 2009 nov. we started hitting off pretty well and we officially started dating on feb 14 2010. But the next day she had to go back to israel for visiting her family. She hadn’t seen them for 3 years. Apparently her ex bf had proposed to her and her parents loved her ex bf and she couldn’t decide in the beginning but ended up marrying him. Two days afer the wedding she came back to the states and contacted me. At first i didn’t talk to her for months but I caved in thinking we can still remain friends. But not too long after we started doing things we weren’t supposed to be doing. She decided she wanted to be with me and not him. We got into a fight on where she can get a divorce. She chose to go to Israel despite my pleas not too. Her husband, her father, and her went to ny first to see her brother. She decided then that she would come back to dallas and do as I had suggested earlier. We got into many arguments over text and phone while she was in ny. When she came back we still did the things we werent suppose to be doing and she had decided that she will talk to her husband and convince him of getting a divorce. If within 4 weeks he didnt give the divorce she would file for divorce and move in with me. She then changed her mind back and forth 3-4 times and after much argument she tells me she is going to go back to Israel and stay with her mom and inevitably staying with her husband. Leaving my to suffer this alone. I find that unfair and am planning to expose her unfaithful relationship she had to her husband and her family. I can’t sink in this by myself.

I’m 73years old, an ex-police officer. I lost my wife 33years ago. Never ever talked to a woman which I liked since the day she left. I feel alone, I feel killing myself. Nobody even says hi when i take a walk. No one even smiles when I take a walk. Where is this world going to, I have no idea. What should I do?

love hurtz .
it fucks man .
i ‘ll never fall in love again coz it just didn’t exist for me.man……
love is just fucking bad dream that occured…..

I knew this girl in school then I left and went in our own directions. I discovered she worked in a shop I pass by in town, so I asked f she wanted to go out sometime and I asked for her number, she accepted both offers but when I text her that night she didn’t fucking reply after 11 days. So I took the card she wrote her number on ripped it up and put the pieces in an envelope and sent the envelope back to her. I mean they show interested and accept your dates but don’t fucking want to keep in contact to confirm a date, what a bitch! I hate women FML.

Do you know what really sux? I have really believed in this relationship…

… after a few months of being together, I had got a new job offer and even if it was a hard one I had to took it.
I was working for a charity before, and had a hard time to pay the bills (guess why)
I was sweating blood at my new job for the first few months, and when I came home I was totally burned out.

I belive that all women (or at least 99% of them) need all your attention and energy to be happy…
Well guess how much energy I had left especially when I had to drive to and from my new work for a long distance?
None, I was entirelly burned out, needed time and space to recharge…
…than she felt that I am not that close to her, she said that “she does not feel the commitment”
and started to push on me even more with let’s buy an engadgement ring and plan the marriage.

I have tried to explain that I am burned out and need to recharge, but you just can not explain anything to a person who does mot want to listen. Honestly, I believe that she wanted to end it up, but to make it to look like it was me who ended it,
that’s why she started to push on me even more.

Well, the newton’s laws applies even in a relationship, especially the third one: “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.”
and I just could not take it anymore, and I kicked her out…

She needs to learn how to appreciate others, and to understand that bills are paid with money (hard work) not with spreading her legs,
otherwise she will never be happy.
…but unfortunatelly she won’t, because she is a hard headed woman.

…on the other hand, if someone can not be happy by her/him-self, a marriage will NOT make her/him happier, especially if you know him/her for only a few months.
(…and fuck the relatives if they think that you have to get married because what would the neighbour or the church say.
They are not feeding you, than just fuck them doggy style up their asses and tell them to fuck off…)

If a woman tells you “Let’s buy this or that…” you say to her “No let’s, you buy it!”
or if a woman tells you “Let’s do this or that…” you say to her “No let’s, you take me there!”
Remember: “Let’s” means “you (fucker=man) do it, buy it …”

A friendly suggestion: Read and understand the book called “Men are from mars women are from venus”!!!

So there is this girl in my class, we always joke have fun, we work together and shit and she always tells me your a really good friend to me and stuff like that (so im in her friend zone i guess) but im in love with her FML!!!!!