I worked with this guy for a year wasn’t that close to him until he broke up with his gf. He started talking to me more I would listen to him talk about how mean his ex was that he didn’t get enough sex and she wanted him to go to church with her and he didn’t think he should have to go to church to get sex from her and after there kid was born she expected more from him. This went on for 6 months. We were talking about the same ol things he always complained about and he was drunk like always when out of nowhere he tells me he loves me and has for a while and tells me we should fuck (his exact words) I changed the subject quick and told him I would see him at work . At work he comes up to me drunk and asks again if I would fuck him. I say no. The next night his ex comes in she works in the same building and has to come to his department often. He starts flipping her off and acting like an ass. After she left he comes up to me and tells me what a whore she is and did I see him flip her off. I said so, you been flipping me off all night he then said well u are in the same category as her except your not a whore. I was pissed he just compared me to his ex because I wouldn’t fuck him. I considered him a friend and spent alot of time trying to help him and he just slapped me in the face with that comment. What the fuck. I didn’t speak to him much after that. And idk why but I felt a little hurt that I had spent 6 months trying to help him and thinking we were friends then he starts all this shit. Almost 4 months latter he text me and said if he did anything wrong he was sorry and that he was sober now and was going to church w his fiance (who also told him he had to go to church with her to get sex) and he considered me a great friend. I’m like WTF am I suppose to say to that.