Today, I realized that my grandparents don’t trust me. They acttualy think im the kind of person to get pregnat at 16, just like my mother did. Im only 12 & yet they think of me as that. Friends? Of corse they are there for you but….Not as your parents are suppose to be right? That is what sucks. & Being told in school I am emo? That’s even worse! Though,I shouldn’t care what people think. But…Im so depressed about my parents. I have no one now. Just me. FML. /:
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your grandparents not trusting you is a social control they put on you so you can prove them wrong by not by being pregnant, which is what they want. My mnom had my siblings when she was young and both of my sisters already have baby and they’re only in their early 20s.
Don’t be mad at them though, they’re probably just looking out for you so you wont get pregnant so young.
You have yourself only and there’s nothing wrong with that. You’ll meet friends eventually; you’re only 12
Sweetheart you know just because your grandparents worry about you doesn’t mean they don’t trust you. You know they have to say something or they wouldn’t be good grandparents. If they were just asking you about things and just telling you how to be safe and what not to do than you really shouldn’t be upset about it. I know what it’s like to feel like everyone is attacking you. But I bet they just love you. If they told you not to fuck up like your mother or called you a whore or something….then you could say they don’t trust you. I think that you should just think about why you feel so upset and think about what you love about yourself. Think about what’s good in your life. Work towards bettering yourself and bettering your life. It will make you feel better.
A happy life = a happy person, a happy person = a happy life. 