I cant stand my best friend anymore.We’ve been friends since we were born but then we grown and become extremelly different people.Now she started to say “GRR IM MAD, SOMEONE DOES NOT RESPECT MY MUSICAL TASTE SO THIS PERSON IS A ASSHOLE” But Im always making jokes about the bands that she likes (EMO BANDS) and she didnt put my name in that shit but Im sure that was for me, and I asked her “Are u talking about me? -mentally:WHAT ARE U YELLING NOW, BITCH? HEHE” And she answered “Not, but if that fits on you…” AND I WAS LIKE “GRRRRRR”.Stupid, she thinks that my jokes about her emo bands (she do jokes about my rock bands either) is impportant than our 17 years of ‘friendship’, go to hell! GRRRRRRRR
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u a man? if ur a man and she a girl giv har a pounding Dog.
I think I know how both sides feel. I too make fun of my overtly romantic friends.And I hope they understand….but there are times when they make fun of something I like and then, though I smile and show mock anger…little do they know I feel like punching their faces then and there. This is unfortunately the doomed human race we are talking about. So no hope.
huh uhh fuck all those people who dont know what the fuck you goin through, find a new friend
u both need to grow up and move on
Dear Stupid,
be kind to your friends and except their musical interests. You do not have to like them but when you are with them act like you like their music and listen to your music at home. Do not extenuate the fuel to the fire, just be accepting of their interests. I was very accepting of my ex-husbands taste and accepting whatever was dished out, but i would save my money and gift cards and purchase my own music. Of course i would have to listen to it when i was cleaning or alone because nobody liked it. There was one time my son had to buy a birthday present for someone and i told him to ask what genre the person liked and than i took him down and he purchased it for his friend and noted the ones he liked and SANTA delivered. My ex-husband would join these cd clubs and most people that use these clubs know how to work them, and i would look over the inserts and pick my tastes and make my list for future reference. Rarely, did I ask him to purchase my taste but was accepted of his-and most of his tastes were similar. He would and still does try to learn the music to play on his guitar. He is a wonderful guitar player and perfects it. He would and could be a wonderful guitar teacher but has to learn to be patient and learn order. Those inserts on those clubs I would ask him on some musicians and he would sometimes play them or i would go to the music store and inquire about them or ask them to play them to listen to them. It wasn’t an impulse purchase yet, it was a matter of elimination. Some music you like one song and the rest you can do without. So essentially you do not purchase it. I would always read the cd insert to read the words, where they are recorded and whom the people are and the instruments they play on the particular songs. Just be accepting of friends different choices of music genre. It is a life long learning process to be accepting of peoples different interests.
Be patient on life and friends. Patience is a virtue. Do not growl unless you are where noone sees nor hears you. I would constantly put up with scowls, growling and tight fists and popping veins because of behavior problems. Perhaps read or take an anger management class or read a book or take it on the computer. It takes alot to extenuate me to run out of patience.