theres this chick that rides my bus to [high school] everyday. shes VERY good looking(at least to me).
Im starting to realize i have a huge crush on her, but i cant go talk to her because i cant figure out what to say. this has been happening all my life, girls liking me but me not doing it about it.
during summer school i went to buy something from the vending machine, and through the relflection i caught her staring at me. to top it off we are the last 2 left on the bus everyday, and it feels like a ride of shame. i sort of think this is a test from God because the only chick who i like happens to ride my bus.
i spend a lot of time thinking of what i should say to her, but nothing good ever sparks. my brother is VERY good with girls and I used to talk to him about girls all the time, but I’m 17 now and i think he might look at me with dissappointment.
I’ve been smoking a little weed lately, and i have realized my confidence skyrockets when i’m high. an option for me is to talk to her while high, but i’m scared that when my high blows i wont no what to say when i see her again.
i dont have any friends at school because of my extreme shyness. many would be suprised to find i have a nice personality, but cant ever bring it out.
some days i literally feel like dying, because i cant do anything i want to do.
Dreary (Thumb Up) or Deserved (Thumb Down) ?
dude there are no magic words for girls is you think you like here just try even hi how are you I’m … is better than not trying trust me you don’t want to end up afraid to talk to girls
Dude stop thinking so much. That’s what happens when your high; you don’t think and it helps. Just play it cool and relaxed.
mate, a lot of girls love shy guys, trust me!
dude. you feel that way now and i hope you do talk to her and be together and the feeling of having someone with you is the best but if you guys break up that feeling will feel(no exaggeration)100X worse than you feel now, you will want to die but you have to be optimistic and look forward and never back.
i wish you good luck:)
man i had the same problem. start slow, just say hi. dont over think things.
I undersatand you man. I go through this shit either.
You know but it is always those pretty girls that we man “falls in love” for them. I don’t know about this specific girl but remember that it is only happens because she is pretty and you don’t feel “as good as it need to be” for her. If you think she is a nice girl and she doesn’t have a boyfriend go and sit next to her and ask her if she wants to study with you sometime to some test or home work. if she live next to you it is even better, if not – not so bad.
And man maximum you don’t get her not so bad. don’t feel really bad about yourlsef, those who get a lot of hot girls are fucking stupid assholes people. I wish you luck man!
hahah like it, if it is as said that girls stare at you a lot hahaha! good game. its game over for them just dont panic boy take it ezy n slow, AT ITS OWN PACE, dont u rush into pussy hunger or you gonna loose that girl u like.
-dont think, take it ezy make her go crazy for you and not you for her.
-after a little confidence and time together work it out and tell her you smoke weed and put her to smoke have a good time, hell yea.
if she likes you and you dont talk to her shes gonna think you dont like her, good strat talk to other girls and laff with other girls then when your alone in da bus talk to her shell be like “yikes hes talking to me”
wen you are a shy man you should realize women are shy-ier. haha gotch aalso all got a bitchy side so play smart do some psycology on her.