Hey dude, sucks that you feel this way. Look I am not gonna preach here and tell you that life is beautiful and all that bullsh*t, in all reality the truth is that life is hard, it’s tough!. I personally have hated my life too, I am completely disgusted and over bored with this sh*t too!, that’s why I am oohh soo ready to stare death in the face! I had soo much happened to me man, it’s UNREAL. Right now? I am incredibly, just livid with bank of america, GOD knows why he didn’t give me powers man, because such corporation would be here in the next hour. Man, I know I am not the best person to tell you this but, Try to put up with it man, sure it’s hard man, but go on, make the rest of your years the best ones in this world. Please if you’re a boy or girl, doesn’t matter man, consider me a friend. Talk to me, let me try to understand your ticks, and problems, there must be a connection here, and I feel that I can help you out a little bit. But DON’T give up man, sh*t I haven’t given up in 28 years so you don’t either man. contact me at: curious_boy_1981@yahoo.com I am serious!! My name is Josh, and I live in Maryland. Looking forward to helping you man.Take care.

Trust me, your life is great! I lost my job and business. My credit is gone, have no money, GF left me, truck is breaking down and no money to fix, no more friends and all i can do is laugh!!! It is what it is!!

Failing that, do what the rest of us do.
Survive.
The world hasn’t got sympathy for anyone who tops themselves, that’s social theatrics.
Truth is that it’s a pathetic act.
Sorrow is anger without motion or direction.
Anger is sorrow with motion, but lacks focus.
Give anger focus and you have determination.
And that’s natural PCP.

Don’t give up, your life is worth living. You’re beautiful, and worthy.

hey man, dont feel like that… there’s always a reason to live.. and if u wanna die and be remembered, then you better start working on something that can make u famous before u die… maybe sports? sciences? politics? music? every person is unique, u only need to discover wut u r best for… it takes some time… (it took me 20 years to figured out my path.. and at some point i felt down like u. but things get so much better after u find urself.. we all go through that my friend…. and yeah start socializing.. friends make life easier. good luck my friend.. add me to tonyalexander69@hotmail.com.. if u wanna be friends

Welcome to the club.

Greetings.
My contact with you is not about changing your mind, but to remind you of something I’ve learnt. Your life, such as it is, may not be what you want, but it is what the world needs. You have no idea the impact of a single word, a look & a positive behaviour!
In this world, we live as part of a very big fabric. It’s not because we want life to be like this; it just is. You (whatever you may think) maybe the life that will contribute to the next president, the person who develops the cure for cancer, who prevents a child from being abused. By removing your life, your deprive others of the one energy they desperately need. I hope these thoughts are helpful.
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YEP SOMETIMES LIFE IS SHIT, BUT IT’S REALLY FUNNY AS WELL. SOMETIMES IT’S SHIT FOR LONNNNG PERIODS, BUT THEN SOMETHING UNEXPECTED ALWAYS ALWAYS HAPPENS.
I HANG AROUND JUST TO BE AMAZED AT WHAT GETS FUCKED UP NEXT, AND SURPRISINGLY SOMETHING GOOD HAPPENS! OCCASIONALLY.
BUT YOU’L NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU MISSED IF YOU AINT HERE TO EXPERIENCE IT!

When I read your comments, I knew extactly how you felt, there are times when I just wanna end my life because I just cant see the positive side to life, and like you I have come close to suicide but I also wanna be remember for something, my life feels stuck, pointless. But do you know what keeps me going….

I really really want to be remember for something, I keep thinking one day I will do something great, and you need to keep that in your mind. Have hope, every day is a fight but one day you will win.

We all feel a bit down sometimes you know. But to be honest, dieing aint an issue. I got debt up to my ears, my so called mates ridicule me because they think I’m not hetrosexual when I am and I have no money because of a recent job change which didn’t work out the way I wanted it to. I’ve always found the easiest way out is to take lots of recreational drugs and drink very heavily. It does it for me but it shouldn’t. Damn my lifes a fuck up

I’m writing this while I’m still feeling it cause I’m pissed off with the world right now. Life doesn’t give a shit about your plans,friend will fuck you over , the government has and will continue to lie to you, cancer is killing us at an alarming rate,the diapproving do-gooders keep making all the fuckin rules,everytime they have some agenda they expect the rest of us to fall in line and jump on the band wagon.Kids grow up and leave,over taxation kills, people die and life sucks. This is what I know to be true most of the time. However this is not how angry I feel about it all of the time.There are many days or better yet, moments in a day where life isn’t shitting all over me constantly.Sometimes I think well if things are that crappy why don’t I go out and do something differant then the same old mundane shit I always do, you know mix it up abit . Do or say something that I might not ever say or do just to shake things up and watch what happens. If it ends up good, alright for me if it ends up bad well then I.m no worse off.Anyways what I think I’m trying to say is we’re all in this together and there are times when life is good to us and times when it is not. And yes, life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. Knowing this doesn’t really help, practising it might. Hope this helps, please don’t kill yourself. I don’t even know you and it makes me sad.

You took the words right out of my mouth, i feel exactly the same every single day since i was 14 and im now in my 40,s! I tried my own bussinesses, different jobs,different university courses, being in a relationship with a man, a woman ,single and cellebate, different cultural living styles, different countries,different religions, athiest, art thereappy, counselling, drugs, alcohol, anti depressants, staying drug free, absoloutely run out of ideas and energy to even care anymore, dont care for the answer anymore, or about being remembered, just dont understand why people say we must live, who says, why?

“This is my depressed stance. When you’re depressed, it makes a lot of difference how you stand. The worst thing you can do is straighten up and hold your head high because then you’ll start to feel better. If you’re going to get any joy out of being depressed, you’ve got to stand like this.”

Life.4 alphabets.Hard.4 alphabets. Every one has difficulties. And at times I feel like shooting alot of people who I blame for my shitty life…if not myself.Then I tell myself, Life hates me and I hate life…and I will never give the enemy the satisfaction of getting to me.

wow u must of bean going though some mad shit i tried to cut my wrists once when i was in a children’s home i was put in there by my mum when i was five and when i realised i was acutely in a children’s home i was about 12 years old and when i 15 i tried to slice my left wrist an as i move the bit of glass on my wrist and pushed down and i saw blood i got scared and stopped and all i wanted was my mum and that mad me think about my mum and why she put her 4 sons in a home cos that hate to be a lot for to do so well my dad is a lot to blame for that he used to hit and rob off her take her last fags never helped out always in the betting shop waisting money he couldn’t afford my mum lived in a council flat on a top floor with no left and 4 sons she had a breakdown and seek-ed out help and i am 26 and i think that was the best thing she could of dun she found help after we was in care she went and finished college and went to uni and run a women’s center for battered woman but my main point is life is what u make it and if u need help there is always help around the corner u have just got to look for it be strong i did me and my mum are like best friends now

im 18 and i have so many bloody problems that it would be impossible to squeeze it into this tiny box…and i feel the same as most of you…im awake every night thinking how i can end my life…and im not just sad about how my life has went im also angry and pissed off..

another thing is my apparant friends…i new in my primary school started bullying me in secondary because i wasnt cool enough for them…and i was left alone and that caused more bullying…and how can i stand up to 8 people.???..who the fuck do they think they are immature fuckers.

Oh well.. Eventually we have to die one day so why not now ? Everyone says life is beautiful this and that. ok lets assume it is beautiful but then what is the main purpose of life ? why are we here if we have to die one day ? just for the sake of someone to remember us after we die ? there are millions and millions of people in the world, what the heck are we all doing here ? Trust me.. there’s absolutely no meaning behind this so called LIFE. God has just made us for his entertainment. Just like we go and watch movies for our entertainment same way god watches each and everyone’s life and he can watch millions of lives and can keep himself entertained forever ! I am not talking all this because i am a depressed person, no i am not. whatever happens in my life i dont care. I be happy always. .. anyone has different views contact me nintzuk@gmail.com

yes, life is shit people say its best but in reality life is terrible you can just discover this by switching on the television and watching the news…what i discoverd is if you live how you want and do what you want…to not become another’sheep in society’ then you can gain anything and dude dont say you dont have mates i’m your mate here’s my email if you wanna chat benbiswellrules@hotmail.com

life really sucks,the better you try the worse it is. i have lots of debt all my family and wifes family were poor (except for those who thinks they are rich)try to force richness felt into misery.
didnt bury my own mum or dad feel like shit.
running after glory made me loose respect and love to my very close family.
I hope you didnt and wont do it.
tomorrow is another day to fight , sometimes there is no family friends faith nothing you feel you left alone in a poddle of shit and everybody knows you or even talk to you for his own benfit.
forget all that start belving in yourself , you can stir the wheel where you want give it time hope , may be, Good luck.

The only thing that bothers me about being alive is the fact we treat each other like shite every day of every week, people are so disgusting to one another for no reason, apparantly manners do cost money!! I work, have a partner, friends and a loving family but the simple fact is im wasting my life working for trees, i may aswell walk into the bank with a branch, i feel working for money instead of each other is the worst thing were doing, mass conciousness is suicidal at the moment not just the person on the street(me). None of us will ever progress as a species when we enjoy destroying the environment and each other just for a pocket full of paper. We should be thinking of the future were robbing ourselves and future generations of, more importantly billions of species who help the planet not destroy it for nothing more than thicker pockets and a clear concience. Id like to write more but whats the point when no one listens.

life wat u make of it , if u took the coward way out ur not thinking of those u left behind.
I’ve had hard life but belive me it’s worth living to see my boys grow up and my beutiful granchildren . My mum died when i was 3 , my dad bought me up boy was he strict i mean strict , but i now look back think he did the best for us 9 children i am proud of him thanks dad , who’s no longer with us u was a star .
Always feeling down only u can get urself out of it i hope one day u see the light that life is worth living , xxx

Hey, life is shit. I know thats not exactly profound – but its not a lie.

To be a happy, well adjusted human we are supposed to maintain a balance of 80% good stuff, to 20% bad. Providing this balance is kept, we should all be happy and inturn spread the happiness around to others. This is true, and there have been times in my 38 years where this has happened.

I have no family. I was brought up by my maternal grandparents who have both passed away, one in 2000 and the other in 2007. I have no other family.

I do have an amazing wife, we’ve been together for almost 7 years now. I’ve just started college, (I love college) I’m on a course that will take me onto to university and a job I have dreamed of for some time. I work in a crappy job, which I actully enjoy, with some good people. I work as many hours as I can to do my part in keeping the home together. My wife is my best friend, my everything and I love her with all my heart.

Now for the bad stuff. I have no friends. You know, those great people that you’re there for, and their there for you. The person (I’m not greedy) or persons that you can talk to about stuff. I’ve got a couple of mates, I don’t see them very often. I chat to people at work and college, but everything is very superficial. I hate me, and I hate the fact that I feel so lonely.

The worst part. My wife doesn’t trust me. She hates it when I mention any females that I go to college, or work with. A woman where I work gave me half a cake that she’d made and my wife thinks we’re having an affair. The only person in my life that I want to be with hates me and it’s too much for me to take.

I can’t commit suicide – I’m too much of a coward. I’m affraid that it will hurt, or go wrong and I’ll just be left a vegetable. What I would like is an Off Switch. I could just flick the switch on the back of my neck and that would be it – all over – no pain. That I would do. Everything just feels so hard, like I’m doing my best to swim against an overpowering currant, and just keep getting pushed back further down stream.

I’m not in a happy enough place to give and advice.

I hope you find your way and good luck.

Life’s a bad joke. Some are born to sweet delight some are born to endless night….

I agree. My life is also shit. Life sucks. If I am dead, there will be no more worries. What is the point of living…none.

ok ppl listen to my side plz, my dad killed himself when i was 16, and althou i have come to terms wiv it and i feel ok that he did that, who the hell am i to say he couldnt do that, but i tell u this. I am 29 now have only felt ok wiv my dads death for about 12 months. If u have someone in your life even if u dont feel they care, just one person, u may care about them, then concider the shit u leave behind for them to pick up. Cause its them who u pass the suffering onto, your ok your free, we my friends are never free. Just give it some thought cause its true, someone wiv experience here !!!

Life is a pointless, meaningless nothingness. No one really cares if one lives or dies – there will be temporary grief to the nearest and dearest but apart from that we are all just a number – 6 billion + and counting. We breed more prolifically than other lifeforms and we die and we breed yet more and the interminable cycle continues ad infinitum.

The most pointless thing about life is life

I am English. I have never wanted to kill myself. I have been in the army and the police and have killed people. It is not nice to have to take another life, but when it is presented in front of you and there is no choice, then it has to be done. I wish i could turn back time…….

No one can say what life is all about. I personally dont have a fucking clue because i just dont seem to have anything worthwhile happen for me, and thats not through lack of trying, believe me i try my best to do things to make my life more worthwhile. Ive got friends but i feel so…empty, like i have a hole and nothing will fill it. Its like im trying to break free but i dont know what im breaking free from, everything is so shit.

What i do know is, genrally people wont give a shit. Everyone has there own stuff to deal with and everyone has got there own stories. You cant wait around for someone to “save you” only you can do that. I aint no fuckin “wise man” by any means and i dont want to sound preachy. I hate life and always have and maybe always will, maybe its a condition maybe its my own mind. What i do know is your not alone, so many people feel like shit like you do, all these comments are proof of that. Some more then others.

Please dont give up!! Life doesnt have sympathy! No matter how hard, stand up straight and smile through clenched teeth! Find something, anything!! even if its screaming in your room or punching fuck out of your pillow. Find that release, something that makes you take a deep breath and say “fuck you, i aint giving up” Your strong, dont let shit grind you down.

I hope for all the best for all of you out there that feel like shit, no matter what country or backgroud your from.

Man, should have shooted your head, inside your mouth…
Next time hung yourself. it is more effective.

Want to be remembered with pity? Leave a message pointing who supossedely forced you to do it. I mean: someone you hate, say he/she is the reason why you finally did it. He/she will be accused of incitement to suicide.

you know what… sometimes i think the same shit… often in real … not sometimes! But you know what… i take a step back and look to the happenings from 1 step backwards …

You know then i see what ?!

Everything is prick, everything is silly, everything is meaningless … Then i understand. If everything is meaningless, why the fuck i to give everything a meaning .

IT IS TOTALLY BLOODY FUCKING MEANINGLESS. Fuck the meanings ! Fuck the effort of understanding ! Fuck the dreams you want to be or become !

Life is not as hot as “Dawson’s Creek” ! I’ll never ever find the true love!
Life is not as friendly as “How i met your mother”! I’ll never ever have that life
Life is not as good as “Friends” …

Thinking about yourself that you are at the level that you should have to be is totally understandable … But how the fuck you know that you arent a dream for some other …

Leave it behind… Look to the whole senario. You born, you will live, you will die… Death awaits us at the end and not matters if you want it or not… But you got a choise. You can die in pain … or die with a smile on your face.

Fuck the rest … Fuck the movies … Fuck the dream lifes! This is your life. Go for it ! Live it . .

It is bad or good / with friends or without / withmoney or without . . . Fuck it! … Leave behind toughts about how ppl have awsome lives… You got your own epic one! Live it! Live till your fingers feel it!

I have friends and i consider myself pretty normal if im honest. But every now and then i just feel really down and unhappy for no reason, ive never really gave suicide proper thought but if someones life is as bad as these comments then it might be justifiable. All i can say is its never too late to change and if you want to have a better life its up to you, noone else is gonna do it for you.

Why do you want to kill yourself???

Hey, I know EXACTLY how you feel, as I am sure many others do. I don’t see any point in any of this anymore. Hell, even if I was rich and had hundreds of friends it wouldn’t make a difference to me, not inside. I see it all as mundane, repeatitice bullsh*t, over and over again. I have tried to figure out why I am here, what purpose does this life serve and I believe in God. He doesn’t send along any answers really. Supposedly we’re here to fight the good fight, eh? But when you continue to get kicked back three steps for every step you take forward you tend to wanna say, “Screw it”. I am tired and completely frustrated with this life. No, I don’t have any friends either, but then I don’t want any, not anymore. Have had “friends” and they stabbed me in the back, talked about me (not in a good way either) behind my back and when I needed them the most….they had excuses or were nowhere to be found. Family? Same with them and I have lots of family. Not one can I trust, not one truly gives a damn! They say it, but thats all it is. Words. Suicide isn’t a thought anymore. Tried it, failed at it and figured there has to be some reason I didn’t succeed at it. Just wish it was all over…ya know. The end of time, the world coming to an end.

having read all the commends i’m so glad to take notice how many intelligent and rather deep people this post have attracted…thanks god you all exist,-people who feel like me,who say what i would say…as walking down the shops etc i look at people and dont know how they feel,-they look okay,i feel i’m the only most miserable and insecure loser around…

my life is fucked up in many ways,and i’m stuck in this badly and it can even get worse..everyday routine is a struggle,i suffer from depression and panic attacks for 1.5years.a doctor prescribed me something helpful for panic attacks and its helping a lot,but we cant find anything for my depression-it only get worse when i take pills for it and i feel of suicide my every split moment…

the only decent thing that happened in my life is learning-i’m quite good at it and its fun and stimulating.everything else been shit-family,social life,private life,sex life,career,what else…health is crappy too.I cant help but hate my parents for giving me such a shit start in life but there a lot of days now when i hate myself and my life badly…i hate being me.i know its not just my parents,-its me,-im a weirdo,a one trick pony,im only good at studying,-no one gets me or respect me,no one wants me,because i’m me,im not general or shallow or imitation of something,i dont have confidence..because i have never been trully happy or felt connected…im insecure because its been shit and miserable mom’s face from day One.and dad’s angry and ugly face.

a lot of times i cant get up and feed myself or look after myself-it helps to only do weekend job,most days i just don’t know how to go on anymore,and i agree with people on here-whats the point-if its all the same shit at the end,-there will be more pain,more hurt feelings,life is so horrible,-theres plenty of other crap that can happen-nasty deceases,disabilities,disfigurement or bad relationship problems…hunger,poverty,war..abuse..oh god…

and then i stop breathing properly and get a panic attack cos i’m scared of future and take medicine. and doctor said,-i cant cure these attacks until i remove the reason behind them-i should stop worrying,-develop positive attitude…i’ve found a trick to help me go through a day and get things done,-i thought-okay its all shit but if i meet just one great person in my life who i will think the world of, i will be so happy i kept myself functional and save myself for them,-it only take one loyal and decent person to change your mind about the whole human kind,isnt it,if they Doing it for you.and then i thought-if i’d be busy and have something done all the time,-it will take my mind off total negativity and later i can look back and at least feel i accomplished something and feel satisfied about something and that would be a positive thing and maybe things bounce into perspective in my head,become more balanced and i will have more confidence…
so now every morning i wake up and think to myself ‘oh fuck,another day!shit!no!’ i then say to myself-i’m too busy right now with ‘important’ stuff and have no time to cry,i gotta run,i’m a busy girl!,i will cry in 3years,when i find time in my schedule!’ and i jump of the bed and go for it,this really helps me and improved my situation at least,so now i have a better job and at least some savings,i’m sure there will get a break one day,when i’ll feel guilty i was so consumed by self-pity and ignorance and didnt fight even harder to be on the ball.why? cos its better to fight like a tiger than die like a dog.here,i’ve said it,sorry its too long,it came out long.hope it helps someone,i spent days reading about hate and death etc posts and it made me feel right to feel all that anger and hate,cos i have my reasons.thank you.

anyone tried to type what they feel like in google images and also add ‘cats with captions’ and search,-gives you very funny cat pics looking like they have human ‘problems’,lightens me up every time!!!!;)))

well why do u feel so..can’t b worse than mine

My life has been a miserable experience to me. In my case I assume the cause for all the miseries was the exuberance of every emotion in me and shitload of anxiety and nervousness.I have always been over jealous.I never want to but my body keeps me in pain when people around me progress.I was never confident enough to face people,my legs and hands used to tremble so badly in front of strangers,irritation in chest and in speaking in short a devastating experience for me it is.Iam also over concerned about all my exams which usually took a major part of my life away from me.giving curriculum presentations,attending case studies was my worst nightmare coming true.I care a hell lot about my loved ones and iam always obsessed with whether they are ok or not.I waste a big part of my life thinking of safety of my family.I get too much angry,too much nervous,too much jealous,too much caring.In short this excess in me devastated me.I always saw embarassment in my least of an unintended effort which kept me troubled for weeks to come.Life is a nightmare,just the reason iam sailing through it is that god may pity on me some day and make me a man capable enough of finding worth in life and making it worthwhile.

Hello sir,

what particularly intrigued me about your statement, was the fact that you said:
“i want to die, but i want to be remembered too.”

Im pretty busy at the moment, but it depends who you want to be remembered by.

If you know that youre not gonna have some family mansion with your portrait for hundreds of years to come for your descendants to see, and if you know youre not going to be prime minister, i can only offer you one solution.

Find love, sir. Because only in rare cases will it find you. Regardless of what you feel or think, make the effort to find that special somebody.

Your name may not be sung across generations for millenia to come, but knowing that someone loves you, and that you make someone happy, and having someone that makes you happy is probably the most important thing in life; happiness.

Remember the afterlife is more important than this, but at least try to make the most of your mortality.

I wish you all the best, do not give up, and live for today.

I wish you a long and happy life!

*some randomer on a laptop*

I am 35 and life really does suck. It’s on the verge of being over for me. Yippie!!!

Hi there, searched the net for fu*** ing life. I do that when I feel like sh**. It mostly cheers me up. Not yet so. Need to go on and do some more sh**y sides on the net. I hope the poster lives still? It always helps me to think about suicide, it’s kinda fun to talk about it till the pain goes away. Hope you get outa soon.

At the end of life we are left with a final test… letting go. Get a head start… let go of everything. Make sure that you know Jesus though.

It is really unfortunate that you feel this way, but you must understand that life has many trials and tribulations for everyone. I’m not going to lie and say that it will get better tomorrow. I’m not going to say that living is ”worthwhile” or that there are sooo many things worth sticking around for because I don’t know what life is like for you, but I will say this… Life is a small step to something much greater, but this step, however small, must be savored. In the end if you feel differently then I suppose there is nothing anyone can say to convince you, but everyone’s existence is vital to an ever changing world. You may not know it, but you being here is vital to me in a way that I cannot quite explain, but after reading your comment I’ve decided not to drink tonight and to instead continue blogging about the unimportant, but satisfying thins in life. Thank you for encouraging me to put my skills to use instead of drinking my liver to death. See, you’ve already made a change.

my life is shit 2 no job no money nothin in life is free ppl tell me all the time its wot u make of it but how can u make anythin of it when there is no opportunities every job iv had has been lost either from bad health as iv had three ops on my chest an live evryday wiv pain or through stupid greedy employers who r only out 4 them selves no help from the social as they give it all to imagrants who only come 4 a handout or to take r jobs at loweer pay only jobs available r not enough to pay childcare or n e other bills stuck in a rut think about diein all the time but ant got the ball and the fact i have a beautifull 2 year old boy could never leave him the only great thing in my life wich also makes me feel bad as i cant afford to take or buy him where or wot id like 2 dnt c n e end 2 this maybe ill feel this way 4eva maybe not just hope my son doesnt end up feelin the same way as i do its a shit life but we gotta deal wiv it the only reason y i fink im still here is love

I’m lonely I Hve no friends to chill with I’m always alone at hme thinking 24/7 hr

dude, you have a job. i dont have a job. i have no money. i guess i m living my last days in this home. this is not a home actually there is a room and toilet and a bath. no family, no gf, no friend. your life is not suck.