OK, well my best friend been asking me to do stuff for them, and I usually do it with out question, regardless of what they ask. But lately I’ve been going through a lot of crap, and I’ve asked him to do stuff for me, and he says he will, but he never does, or even when he does, he fucks everything up. Granted, I’ve known him for like 4 years, and we’ve been good friends since then. He is like a brother to me, but IDK what I should do. I’ve tried talking to him, but he is to busy sticking his tong in his girl friend mouth, that I rarely even get to talk to him. He is either with his girl friend, or “to busy” to talk. He seems he only wants to be around me if he needs something. Whenever I try to call him, he can’t talk, but when he calls me I talk to him even when I’m busy. I feel like I’m losing me best friend, and I don’t want that. What should I do?
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im going through the same thing. The best thing to do, if he doesn’t bother even making time for you is. Shut him out. You can find a wayyy better friend<3
-emily
FUCK HIM UP. KILL HIM IN HIS SLEEP.
i know what u mean, ive have a friend where we basically live at eachothers houses, but everytime he get a girl or if someone or i dont seem convenient to him u can never get ahold of him. hes like if u ever need anything let me know, but hes never been there, and after over seven years im done if the friendship isnt really there anymore then u have just become well known aquantances.
It doesn’t matter what you do! Most of the time once your best friend gets a girlfriend, you are put onto the backburner and never make it back to the front! That’s been my experience everytime!
well he doest seem like a good friend to me, if he only wants to talk to he needs something, but when u try to talk to him he blows u off. thats not being a good friend. tell him how u feel, tell him that u feel like your losing him as a friend. n if he still does the same, hes not a good enough friend you can find a better friend. but thats what i think, im jus giving advise. take it or dont take it. i hope everything works out the way you want it too. good luck!
he seems like a real asshole… hes not a good friend to to so i wouldnt waste my time.
at some point all friends drift apart and its true u can count only true friends on one hand, he wont be included, cut your losses wiv him and get a friend where its a two way st, he should know this probably does its not rocket science, but he can walk all over u so why whould he wanna change that?, only u can
Perhaps lessen the calls with him. Right now he is developing a friendship and does not need influence from others. You both are older and how do you know what he does? Maybe right now he needs to be with her to smooth out his troubled life and direct him straight! Be accepting of this predicament but do not be harsh on him. You are not the only person in the world that is busy. Everyone is claiming their fame. Right now he maybe sorting out his feelings and going through some tough times, be patient and consoleing. Try on a mutually inclusive day of the month to talk and it may not be he needs something from you, it maybe some people or parents over buy for their children and others due not have the stuff others do. You may do good deeds but remember read about the less fortunate people also here and around the world. REFLECT and look in the mirror and ask yourself what have I done good today for someone. I know people who have immigrated here to the US and have accepted the commercialism of the holidays but yet still celebrate their own religious holidays, which is fine, but there is a limit. Remember school is most important and everyone in this world is educating themselves. He maybe working and attaining different goals in school and may not want to share his personal grief with anyone, but has learned to keep his focus on his education. It maybe his nature not to be as social as he use to be. It is part of life and growing up but do remember it will pass and you will continue to be friends just not like it use to be.
fucking shit this is happening wid me too..my close frnd has found al these cool ppl to hang out with form his colg and he is at their house or wid them all d fucking time ..also gets dem when we r together sometimes ..we were like 3 gud frnds together nd now this one bastard is drifting away! all for being fucking cool!
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