My ex-fiance is a crack-head. He did so good with his recovery for a long time. We were suppose to have gotten married on April 25, 2009, but he relapsed. If he would have shown effort in trying to fix the issue, we would still be a couple, not married though. He showed no effort and is out there somewhere on the street getting drugs however and whenever he can. All the while calling me constantly trying to push the blame. I love him dearly but know I have to let him go and push him out of my life. I hate this crap.
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Addictions are a bitch to overcome. I know. I have mine and I have worked hard to overcome mine. Your ex-fience did you a favor by going back to his addiction. It is so much better he did that before you were married.
You now MUST break all ties with him. I know that is going to be very difficult for you and it is going to tug at your emotions and heart. Eliminating him from your life is mandatory to your happiness. He needs professional help and he will do all in his power to get you back and the result will be to drag you down and will cause a lot of misery. Your love for him is one of the reasons that you cannot enable him to continue using. The only help you can give him is to direct him to a Addiction Recovery Program. That is all you can do.
Remember, “You can guide a horse to water, but the horse has to be willing to put it’s noise in the water and drink.
Love yourself enough to let this one go. You will find another that is worth of the love you have to offer. You deserve better than a person that is addicted to a harmful lifestyle.
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